‘Surrounded with people around,
She never realized what it meant to be profound
As soon as, people left
She got all the answers of her quest.’
So the concept of spending time alone, haunts you? Why so? Are people with you helping you to grow? If not, then why is spending time alone haunting you? You’ve got no idea, how beautiful it is to spend time alone. Often people who are silent and introvert are tagged as ‘boring’. They are tagged so because the society today demands people who are highly outspoken, and are extremely extroverts.
But, trust me. You can leave this society behind. I am an ambivert person, a person who has a balance of extrovert and introvert both at the demanding situations. I too was one of those persons who never realized the worth of spending time alone. But time changed it all.
Embrace Your OWN Time For Your Personal Growth
Often when we are surrounded with people, we create numerous illusions. And what are those illusions like? Those illusions are such as ‘he is my best friend, and he’ll always stay beside me’. Hey, wait! Ever heard people come and go?
Don’t just hear it, it is a fact. Not everyone is going to stay with you forever. You have to live your life alone. You own your life; don’t just waste it living others’. Do whatever you want to do, sing a song, dance like nobody is seeing, travel like you don’t know anybody, do whatever your heart says. But, just spend some time alone.
Spending time alone will nourish your mind and soul
Giving yourself time alone, time will make you a better person. You’ll transform into a new person. And don’t be scared. That new person will be an amazing one! You’ll be able to figure out the solutions for your problems. You’ll be able to catch up with your weakness and strength. You’ll get an idea, of which page of your life you want to jump upon.
Understand the ideation of spending time alone, with a simple example. While driving a car, ever seen the bars and fences that surround the roads? They are there to help the drivers to take the car in a straight, defined path. They support you and your car and don’t let your car drift easily.
Same goes with people. People are just trespassers, who are going to stay, only for a short time. They stay to support us, to make our lives a little bit simpler. We have to jump out of that comfort zone and anticipate ourselves in a better way. A path, where only “you” is present. Remember the theory of “alone we come, alone we go”.
Don’t dishearten yourself by staying alone. You are going to be one of those strongest personalities, who’ll end up living the lives that are worth appreciating of.
Note to Yourself
“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.”