“Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end.”
It is difficult to see your loved ones changing, isn’t it? But, that’s how life rolls, that’s how life has its own muffling voice to treat you and present you the best. On a personal experience, I’ll tell you an instance of my friend, who got sad over changing behaviors of people. He felt pathetic on seeing his best friend changing. But, he made a mistake, he didn’t change with time.
We, as humans, often make the mistake of seeing people as “stagnant”. We don’t want them to change, grow. This perception and ideation almost drags us to the pit of anxiety and self-retrospection.
Don’t Go Through Life, Grow Through Life!
A nice statement often made by people: Flow, with the flow. But, how often do we follow that? If we could have gone with the flow, there wouldn’t have been any disruptions of us, as growing creatures. Free yourself, and anticipate the idea of growing. Nourish yourself into a beautiful creature. Don’t just go with the flow, change yourself, change yourself to grow, and grow to learn. This is how life is supposed to be!
You know, when you often change, you’ll meet numerous aspects and colors of life. Those colors would not only make you learn, but will also help you to comprehend, that is why it is important to change.
Out of Difficulties, grow miracles!
You want to foresee, how miracles happen?
Follow your dreams, follow the change, and miracles are at your doorstep.
Not everyone can follow their dreams, or listen to the voices screaming inside them, not everyone has the courage to break free and lead a life where they’ve control over their choices instead of a group of people designing life for them where they try forever to fit into it.
You realize not everyone can be like you, and therefore, this is the reason why you exist. You exist so you can share your story, and not just continue living your own dream, you talk about it too, and you let others know that if you can do it then they can too.
So respect it, respect yourself and your dreams, and all those stories that hit you every day, momentarily making you realize that you’re meant for much more. And it happens because you truly are meant for much more.
If it’s not growing, it’s going to die
A serene example of a flower, which grows from a bud, and grows slowly with the pace, if it doesn’t grow and adapt itself with the change of surroundings and nature, it would die. So do we, humans. If we don’t alter and reorganize our lives in such a manner, and continue living it in a haphazard manner, no doubt we’ll drag ourselves into a shift of longing.
Enjoy this beautiful and magnificent procedure of growing, you’ll start enjoying it, once you undergo its process and conclude its worth.